Sunday, July 20, 2008

FHE With Preschoolers and Toddlers

I know there are tons of blogs out there with great FHE ideas. Bloggers who are much more creative than me! I enjoy reading them and using their ideas in our FHEs. Most of what I have found has been a little too old for my 3 year old and one year old boys. They have very short attention spans. So on this blog, I will share what I have found or created myself (rarely) that has worked with my little ones. I will also share what may have flopped completely, so you can learn fom our trial and error.

At our home, FHE is informal, never stiff. (How could it be with two tiny boys)? Sometimes our activity and lesson are combined. Sometimes we memorize a scripture while we stuff our mouths with the treat or while we play with a parachute. We change locations and presentation methods often. We usually start the lesson at the dinner table while we have a "captive" audience. Then we move somewhere else for the activity part of the lesson. We always have prayers, music, scripture reading, and a treat. The lesson portion is generally a combination of several interactive activities. That way I can get more than 5 minutes of teaching in. By planning 5 or 6 different segments of FHE, we are able to have about an hour of focused family time teaching a principle of the gospel.

I also don't use ideas that take tons of preparation. I don't have time for hours of prep with two little boys to enjoy all day. I try and spend Sunday evening gathering my materials and planning. I do feel like it is something I should spend time and energy on so we can be successful, but I don't feel like it is something that should take away from time I spend with the boys while they are awake. (Especially when they are just as happy if Daddy pulls out his guitar and plays primary songs for an hour. That is our favorite).

Occasionally our Family Nights are very simple. We read a gospel art picture, sing primary songs, and play Ryan's favorite "Duck, Duck, Goose." Others are elaborate with a theme. I just feel like it is important that we have them every week, no matter what. I don't want my boys to ever remember a time when we didn't have FHE in our home.

My greatest resources for planning are the Gospel Art Kit, the Sunbeam manual, the Friend, and the internet. I will come up with our topic and google it. If you are doing a bible story, there is a wealth of information available. Some of the sites I frequent are linked on the side.

If you have done lessons on similar themes, please share your comments. If you use one of our ideas, let me know if it worked for you.


Maile said...

A mutual friend, Katie, just gave me your blog address. This is great! My kids are 2 and 4 and I agree that a lot of ideas seem geared towards older children. I'm looking forward to you ideas and suggestions to help me plan FHE!

Cortney said...

I am so excited about this!

Kjerstine said...

I know this blog is old.. and not even sure if you see this... but THANK YOU!

I love this blog! I is helping us so much to do a fun fhe...

We live in Denmark,so we dont have alot of tools for it... but thanks to your blog my kids love FHE now!

Anonymous said...


i just love how simple you keep fhe. Nothing fancy, just you and your Boys.
For me it's a challenge to come up with things- so i'm extra thankful i can peek at your blog to help me out!
i am excited for fhe to come and try out some ideas.